Do you ever get the feeling that our lives are planned for us?
you go to school, make friends, graduate, lose friends
they try to hook you up in a relationship, you refuse,
you go to college, they screw you up, make new friends, graduate
you work, complain more, a guy you liked got married
they try to hook you up in a relationship, you say yes, you're stuck in a marriage you never wanted at first place.
That's your life. A long series of necessary transitions from one period of life to another. The next time you make a decision, remember you really didn't have a saying in the matter.
You're part of a plan.